One of. She asked AITA for. Shes usually out of the house at his place or her friends houses that are in our off-campus neighborhood. I moved into an apartment with a roommate about 6 months ago. My roommate begged that her boyfriend stay with us from Thursday to Sunday & I agreed stating that he needed to leave by Sunday because my exam was early the next day and I needed to have enough sleep (I cant sleep with him here due to their sex extravaganzas & he snores). We all get along well and consider each other friends more than roommates. She makes more than twice what her boyfriend makes and spends less than half of what he does on rent. AITA for Being Honest About My Roommate&x27;s Boyfriend I (20F) am currently in a situation with my college roommate "June" (19F) of how I responded to a question about her on and off again boyfriend. She moved in a week and a half ago. Its a great place, especially for the price, but its meant for 2 people. YTA - you told your boyfriend to use your roommates private bathroom. When we went out to dinner for the first time I told him I was vegan when ordering my dish and he just kind of went. Im done at this point. (AITA) subReddit. Stage 2 Your Roommate Announces Her Lover is Moving In. We've gotten along wonderfully except for this past issue. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole I might be the asshole because I feed my roommate's boyfriend food and that can be seen as an inappropriate action. Let&39;s call my bf Jay and his roommate Scott. I got along with mine and we're still friends to this day. Me and my female roommate cuddle with eachother in bed sometimes and sleep overnight in the same bed sometimes whenever her boyfriend isnt available and shes in the mood to cuddle and sleep in bed with someone. We now share a 3 bedroom apartment. My boyfriend (now baby daddy, we just found out) took me to get some food and when he came back I asked him if he had ordered himself anything to eat. i also told him i would be more comfortable if he were to stay in my hotel. My (24F) roommate and close friend (23F) and I both work as servers at the same restaurant. My roommate casually asked if I would be ok with her (not boyfriend at the time) moving in with us. One way to make it more affordable is by fin. We discussed many aspects and boundaries. My roommate begged that her boyfriend stay with us from Thursday to Sunday & I agreed stating that he needed to leave by Sunday because my exam was early the next day and I needed to have enough sleep (I cant sleep with him here due to their sex extravaganzas & he snores). In March of 2021 my roommate notified me that his boyfriend was coming to stay for a week, which is not unusual my boyfriend. It is super weird that he pushed me so hard to add him, and he wouldn't respect my no. My roommate just rented out a room in my apartment starting one month ago. She might trust him, but you dont. AITA for kicking out my roommate. But you can still chase after her for your 400. They have had problems on and off again but recently Ive been. It has been an. AITA bringing my boyfriend over despite my roommate's request Hi, I (F21) live with my roomate (F28) in a shared apartment. YTA - not because you are washing your wig in the sink, but because you are doing it at 2 in the morning and you get upset when you get called out. 282 votes, 33 comments. Basically, my roommates relationship deteriorated with her after our ex roomie complained about her boyfriend staying over too much. It sounds like she has some serious anxiety, maybe to the point of PTSD. During the previous seven months of the lease, roommate was rarely at the apartment. My (19f) roommate (20f) and I lived together in college this year and overall she was a great roommate. He was about two blocks away & his car battery died. My boyfriend and I usually shower together when he comes over and stays the night. My roommate just rented out a room in my apartment starting one month ago. Roommate for expecting you to put up with his shit just because she&39;s willing to. My roommate and I both have a good amount of anxiety the majority of the time and Ive. I am a 15 year old girl at a residential college summer program, and my roommate, also 15F, and I share a small bedroom with no divider. The same roommate who also sends me texts (I have 56 right now) saying, "I'm taking x, if that's not cool then I'll replace it on payday. Came home early from work one day, looking forward to having the place to myself for a bit with the other two roommates being out, but nope. A few months down the line, he starts dating this girl who immediately moves into our place without consulting me about it at all. My bf pays 500 and his roommate pays 425. YTA - you told your boyfriend to use your roommates private bathroom. So she turned to the Am I The Ahole (AITA) subReddit for moral judgment. My roommate is getting mad, but her boyfriend should have minded his own business. Every single thing that she owes, what she&39;s done, what her boyfriend has done, damage to the property. Document everything. I thought problem solved. Let your roommate know that&39;s their boyfriend and he needs to use their bathroom or hold it until he gets to his place otherwise you and your children when start using herhis bathroom in the master bedroom suite. I think hes manipulative and treats her terribly and in general I just dont like him. You not managing your time is not an excuse to invade your roommates space without permission. AITA Roommates Boyfriend So late last year a friend of mine asked to move in to a shared home and together we became co-renters of a house. Your boyfriend didnt use a different bathroom for the sake of your roommate. EDIT Our house has enough rooms for 7 people total. (AITA) subReddit. My husband and I own our home (27f, 29m). Read this before contacting the mod team. My roommate is getting mad, but her boyfriend should have minded his own business. I started dating "John" (m22) about three and a half months. Mind you, we only have one bathroom. Before she met her boyfriend we would hangout all the time and do typical roommate stuff but now its ALL him. 45 votes, 29 comments. Heres wha. For context, my roommate and I were roommates on campus last year, and moved off campus this year together. She lately started having her new boyfriend (M24, Ryan) come over for dinner. Your mom is an AH for using you as her collections agent and skirting the law regarding the rental because it's convenient for her. AITA for not wanting my roommates boyfriend to sleep over. She moved in a week and a half ago. Cohabitating in the time of COVID-19 and the shelter-in-place directives can be tricky. He got sick with anger. He stays with me almost every weekend and most of the times he complains about the way me and my roommate (28F) live. From I Love Mom hearts to intricate, colorful sleeves, body art can be whatever you want it to be. AITA for banning my roommate's boyfriend from our house I live in a 5-bedroom student house with 5 friends and we are all sophomores in college. Both the boyfriends are pilots, except her boyfriend has JUST started flying. Orser was forced to come out about his homosexuality when his ex-boyfriend Craig Leask sued him for palimony in 1. I cant believe your roommate doesnt see that. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Lilac wants to date a little puppy, because, as she puts it, he would be the exact opposite of the guy. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. If your boyfriend was so sick he could barely make it to your couch, all he needed was to just stay in your bed all day, your roommate never needed to even see him. But more importantly your boyfriend is 18 years older than you And he has a 13 and 17 yr old kids. bowle01 8 min. AITA for reporting my roommate to our landlord Here is some background info I (20 f) live with three other girls also (20 f). Well Bobby really wanted to watch XYZ game and I told him we could do it. He said Eric needed to see this, so I screenshot page after page Amanda sent while we watched the New Trilogy. My roommate has been dating a guy for a few months now and randomly decides that he can sleep over after only knowing him for 3 months. Would be inconvenient for me - cant take advantage of her anymore, that sucks I feel for you (((. That is emotional manipulation. They are loud, smelly, unclean, and destructive. This roommate F18 has brought her boyfriend over five days and nights a week every week from august to december. My roommate is getting mad, but her boyfriend should have minded his own business. We live together and split rent, utilities, and Wi-Fi equally. Basic roommate manners to mind your own damn space and leave everyone else the fuck alone in peace, and that means not commandeering the home with your equally assholey boyfriend. 41 votes, 25 comments. Today's theatrical was an alcohol-induced rage because I locked our door that leads to the basement (w&d are located) by 9pm. My (24F) roommate and close friend (23F) and I both work as servers at the same restaurant. Since living together she has had 3 relationships that have got to the stage of spending time at each others. I live in a 3 bedroom apartment with 2 other roommates. Background I (20F) live with one roommate (20F). In the 7 months since Ive been dating my boyfriend I have never had a single conversation with Jack. If he&39;s not willing to meet and interact with your friends even on a surface level. She has a boyfriend (22M) that is pretty cool. For context, we are two mid-twenties couples living in the same house. Shes usually out of the house at his place or her friends houses that are in our off-campus neighborhood. Ultimately, the model is based on roughly 40,000 posts. Our beds are less than 6 feet apart from each other. After the first month I spoke with her about how Im uncomfortable with her bf. I texted our 1st roommate about needing to talk Thursday morning, he replied once vaguely and he hasnt been home since (its Sunday). AITA for shutting roommates cat in catio while BF and I eat Some setup, I (29F) live with a roommate (29F) and two cats. Had a roommate give boyfriend his own set of keys so he could come by anytime between sales calls (this was well before COVID Zoom & work from home). The second situation involves my boyfriend (23M). In January the previous abusive tenants moved out. So your boyfriend likes em young and you like the daddy figure. bowle01 8 min. We've gotten along wonderfully except for this past issue. AITA for reporting my roommate to our landlord Here is some background info I (20 f) live with three other girls also (20 f). I definitely get upset with him leaving trash on the kitchen counter or putting dishes in the sink when I always make sure that the dishwasher is available for dirty dishes. AITA for wanting my boyfriend to ask his roommate to move out Should I just find my own place by myself so my son at least has a place to stay when hes born Please help me Im so conflicted and really need to know if Im overstepping since. NTA, talk with your sister rather than her boyfriend and you need to establish boundaries with her. AITA for telling my roommates boyfriend that he will have to move out eventually Throwaway because people know my real account Alright, so for a bit of backstory, I (21M) moved in with my friend C (21F) in August in a two bedroom apartment. I regret not speaking up when that happened, but after she brought that up, my roomies boyfriend never came over again. Its a community where over 3. We got dressed up, did our makeup, and headed over to the party. My roommate (22f) and her boyfriend (28m) recently moved into our small two bedroom apartment. beC48Wo5ESqZgJJoin our subreddit, rstoptheinternethttpswww. I hear them argue, and Amanda slams the door to leave. Bare with me for a minute as I explain the kind of relationship ryan and I have. About a month after she moved in my other roomates (lets call her jess) boyfriend (lets call him jake). 97 votes, 32 comments. Theres two issues here. 41 votes, 25 comments. I (19NB) have a roommate (21F) in college that Ive known for a while (5-6 years). Living in an expensive city can be difficult, especially when it comes to finding affordable housing. Tell your roommate and him that he can&39;t use your bathroom anymore. Roommates boyfriend here 7 days a week. Mind you, we only have one bathroom. AITA for changing in front of my roommates boyfriend My (19F) roommate (19F) asked if I would be okay with her boyfriend spending a couple nights in our shared room together. I tried to plan it around her schedule so she wouldn&39;t have to listen to us or be in the vicinity becausethat&39;sawkward af. If Kyle did take the money clearly youre NTA and Kyle is the AH. One of the tenets moved out in the summer taking her CATS with her. I was hesitant at first, but she convinced me to come along. After the tomato paste, add deseeded and chopped tomatoes to the pan. OP and Maira now have to share those with three people rather than two, so their rent should go down and Daniel should cover the difference. He told her she could teach him, she responded with a big No. Flash forward a few months, bf has paid no rent, no bills, has no job and they are constantly fighting. My roommate, Tammy, and I are both on fairly limited budgets. I go to bed early like I have been and everything seems good until I wake up later in the middle of the night. On top of that she was a god awful roommate. We spent every minute of every day together since lockdown and told each other everything. I dont care what she says to my boyfriend, but its weird how she feels the need to say that to me. Hi, this is my first post on Reddit and as the title states I want to know if I AITA because of the way I (34 f) responded to my roommate (31 f). My roommate (26 F)&39;s boyfriend (26 M)&39;s family wants to go on vacation for a couple days. The one who is of age had bought a bottle of wine, and the three of us were drinking it and watching. Initially my roommate would have guys over without my knowledge and I would later find out by seeing them leaving the next day. I hear both my roommate and her boyfriend talking at full volume with music blasting from one of their phones. He was staying almost half the time in our shared house. Jay is a great guy, we&39;ve been dating 2 years. Hi, my roommates boyfriend wont leave our room. (This was the same artist that I actually went to a concert with T last year). She asked the sub. They've gone on several dates now & he always brings her flowers. The list goes on to where she accuses me of flirting with her man. He kept trying to get in. 122 votes, 55 comments. He got sick with anger. I (19NB) have a roommate (21F) in college that Ive known for a while (5-6 years). It&39;s OK that he asked you to move out early. Also, depending on your lease agreement, if the landlord finds out that there's essentially 3 people living in an apartment rented to two people, there could be some issues there. At some point one of her boyfriends stayed for. However me and her doesnt do anything sexual with eachother we dont kiss or do. Flash forward a few months, bf has paid no rent, no bills, has no job and they are constantly fighting. When we moved in together we both agreed that the apartment would be a. The place isnt the best and we live under a drug addict but it doesnt cost a lot (we split rent 50 50 eventhough I have the slightly larger room). A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if. I have a fairly simple solution for you, have YOUR boyfriend over 247 Give it a few days, and your roommate will probably complain about the frequency of his visits. At first, I thought she had a slip of the tongue which would have been forgiven because anyone can have a inadvertent memory lapse. ok hi I am very new to reddit but I listen to two hot takes and I need unbiased advice this year I moved into a four bedroom apartment with three other girls. AITA for telling my boyfriend&39;s roommate to get over himself after he told me to stop having sleepovers at the apartment So, I&39;ve been with my boyfriend (bf) for 4 months. This is too sudden - august I blew up - yeah YTA. beC48Wo5ESqZgJJoin our subreddit, rstoptheinternethttpswww. AITA for still showering with my boyfriend after my roommate requested we stop I (22f) have four other roommates and we only have two bathrooms, both are usually occupied in the morning. by PandaBoi0427. Background I (20F) live with one roommate (20F). OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole The action I did was trying to block my roommate from moving her boyfriend into our apartment and being combative to her about her situation. Jane jumped into it kinda fast, spent a lot of time w her bf not at the. He knew in advance his lease was coming to an end and didn't try to find a new apartment. However, you may not be wrong and confronting Kyle may get you an answer. Internal-Story1105 22 days ago. For context we each have our own room but the living roomdining roomkitchen is a shared space. Me and my roommate only really spoke if something needed to be cleaned or music needed to be turned down. Redditor perky-scungili found herself having to choose. Me (23F) and my boyfriend (24) have been dating for almost a year. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole I asked my roommate if she could sleepover at one of her friends dorms if my boyfriend were to comeover when she told me she would be uncomfortable sleeping in the same room as him. Until the roommate processed that my bf and I were both paying 700 (1400) and he was paying 1300 (total rent 2700, I included utilities). If he&39;s not willing to meet and interact with your friends even on a surface level. I cant believe your roommate doesnt see that. It has been an. Shes usually out of the house at his place or her friends houses that are in our off-campus neighborhood. My old roommate was quiet, and we each had very occasional visitors. She gets off work and is home for 20 min before he comes over and he comes everyday. by Fyou96. Would be inconvenient for me - cant take advantage of her anymore, that sucks I feel for you (((. " I was shocked and started crying. Whether its a new roommate, a potential business partner, or even a romantic interest, its crucial to have the right information at your fingertips. We all have known each other for years and usually get along really well. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole I might be the asshole because I feed my roommate's boyfriend food and that can be seen as an inappropriate action. When I shared my concerns with June, she accused me of being jealous because I hadn&39;t had a boyfriend in a while. I regret not speaking up when that happened,. Duplexes offer the convenience of two separate living spaces, but with the cost savings of renting one unit. Ever since we started dating I feel like everyone has treated me in specific differently. She asked him to leave. Heres how t. The other tenet, who is friends with the landlord, moved both her boyfriend and her dog in. AITA for not wanting my roommate's boyfriend to use our shower My roommate and I share a bathroom in a college apartment, and I'm ok with him using it just regularly when he's over. The boyfriend was never supposed to move in, but he followed her after college and decided to move across the country with her when she came to live with me. Its his apartment. My roommates, Jane (19 F) and Sarah (19 F) both got in relationships starting in September. As of January 2012, Brian Orser has not been married yet, but he has been in a relationship with Rajesh Tiwari for four years. Roommate 1 deserves to know her best friend (2) and boyfriend are being trash human beings. My roommate and I both have a good amount of anxiety the majority of the time and Ive been telling her the vibes in the house arent good and Im not feeling comfortable but she keeps brushing it aside. NTA - Donating to his GFM would be a nice gesture, sure, but it's not an. 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AITA for kicking my roommatefriends boyfriend out of our apartment after 3 weeks Recently my (24f) roommate's (24f) boyfriends (31m) lease ended and he didn't sign another lease before. One night, my roommate invited over her boyfriend, Cameron (20F). Tattoos are really nothing new, and body art has been around for centuries. We discussed many aspects and boundaries. (AITA) subReddit. In January the previous abusive tenants moved out. AITA for kissing my roommates boyfriend. 41 votes, 25 comments. He said it would be very temporary until he found another place to live. My roommate is getting mad, but her boyfriend should have minded his own business. Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube. AITA for saying my roommates boyfriend cant come over For starters, I (21m) and my best friend (20f) have been dealing with a roommate since June. Luckily, I had another friend who moved back into the area that same week and he took the other room (3rd roommate). Ok, so I told my roommate a week in advance that my boyfriend would be visiting for a week. My roommate (26 F)'s boyfriend (26 M)'s family wants to go on vacation for a couple days. It felt like we were the only two people in the room, lost in the moment. I started an insult match with her boyfriend when I probably could've went about it in a better way. Today she texted me asking if he could come over tonight,. Me (23F) and my boyfriend (24) have been dating for almost a year. That said, consider whether this is an issue important enough to risk having a really bad roommate experience over, because that. To preface I (21f) have a roommate (53f), we both work 50 hr weekly. His stunt was malicious and cruel to get his own way. Layla started dating Kyle about 6 months ago. Doesn&39;t matter if it&39;s two weeks, doesn&39;t matter if you&39;re not living there. AITA for wanting my roommate's bf to get out of our place So I (21f) live with two roommates (20f and 21f). NTA and I can't understand people saying YTA. 4-5 months. I tried to plan it around her schedule so she wouldn&39;t have to listen to us or be in the vicinity becausethat&39;sawkward af. 2nd roommate basically becomes neurotic and cuts everyone out of his life. AITA for telling my roommates boyfriend that he will have to move out eventually Throwaway because people know my real account Alright, so for a bit of backstory, I (21M) moved in with my friend C (21F) in August in a two bedroom apartment. AITA for not letting my roommate bring her boyfriend to our house I (35f) have lived with my best friend roommate (35f) for several years. Unotatypicaltaurus, an anonymous woman, wrote about the situation on Reddit&39;s popular "Am I The Ahole" topic, where it gained over 11K upvotes and more than 1,500 comments. Try to compromise without being condescending. The roommate one day messaged the group chat saying that he is going to have a friend move in and sleep on the couch if we don't split rent 3 ways. Maybe that means Matts gf only can come by 4 nights a week. In March of 2021 my roommate notified me that his boyfriend was coming to stay for a week, which is not unusual my boyfriend at the time of us first living here would spend 2. You can't evict them, so you have to be the one to decide what to do next. Nothing short of holding her makes her be quit. She then saw an identical car to my boyfriend's outside our house. (AITA) forum for advice. I hear both my roommate and her boyfriend talking at full volume with music blasting from one of their phones. It sounds like she has some serious anxiety, maybe to the point of PTSD. 6 months later, our 1st roommate and 2nd roommate breakup because of some personal things and drugs. And this is your home,. I hear them argue, and Amanda slams the door to leave. We spent every minute of every day. AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend over his roommate Background my 18m boyfriend moved cross country with his friendroommate jack whos 18m as well. Theyre there for the opportunity to rip into people. At first, I thought she had a slip of the tongue which would have been forgiven because anyone can have a inadvertent memory lapse. For context, we are two mid-twenties couples living in the same house. Three months ago, she started dating this new guy and. They are very touchy and their bedroom activities are less than quiet. Covid is one thing but being in room while roommates smashes boyfriend is big no go. I get blue apron meals I couldnt cancel or use (one that had arrived that day and the other I couldnt cancel). 3 of the bedrooms have a single occupant (2 girls, 1 boy), 1 of the bedrooms has a couple and 1 of the bedrooms have a mom and her 2 yo son. Not only does this sound like an overly-inflated ego problem, but he is attempting to guilt you into doing what he wants. The roommate does not have a right to have her boyfriend there at the leaseholder's expense because hanging out with one's boyfriend is not a "right" that should be observed by decent people while being safe in one's home is. She has a boyfriend (22M) that is pretty cool. AITA- Roommate Disagreement. I was not happy but this person moved in (I had to move my. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. This roommate F18 has brought her boyfriend over five days and nights a week every week from august to december. Just like you, your roommates can have anyone over they want. Since living together she has had 3 relationships that have got to the stage of spending time at each others. But now that theyre deciding to live together, he expects her to pay higher rent, but she doesnt feel its necessary. The landlord told BF and roommate that if they didnt find a new tenant he would use Craigslist, so I moved in. I have a fairly simple solution for you, have YOUR boyfriend over 247 Give it a few days, and your roommate will probably complain about the frequency of his visits. TLDR Roommates BF lives with us rent free and causes issues. Water bill is already included in the rent. I told her that I wasn't comfortable with that as I had never met her boyfriend before and me and her weren't super close. Either way I would say NTA but you should probably look for a more compatable roommate situation or ask your boyfriend if he would consider the same. AITA Roommate Dispute. I actually cant remember a roommate deliberately trying to take advantage of me. She wanted a fully functioning adult as a. Maybe he wouldnt have. Let me just say that Ryan is quite. I did not know he was her boyfriend upon first meeting him. Help keep the sub engaging. Until the roommate processed that my bf and I were both paying 700 (1400) and he was paying 1300 (total rent 2700, I included utilities). I (24F) live in a 2 bedroom with my roommate (24F). 41 votes, 25 comments. Hi, my roommates boyfriend wont leave our room. Some people could see that as being pushy like he did. He comes to visit every other weekend. UPDATE - AITA for telling my roommate that I dont give a fuck about her boyfriends allergies original post I sat down with Layla a few days after my initial post and really talked with her about why I felt her and Kyle&39;s request was unacceptable and I laid out my biggest concerns -. If your roommate cannot respect the rules she agreed to (which includes proactively enforcing them on her guests), then she is in violation of the agreement. Living with roommates is an experience like no other. Roommate 1 deserves to know her best friend (2) and boyfriend are being trash human beings. AITA My roommate&x27;s boyfriend has basically moved in Sorry if my grammar is terrible- it&x27;s 1am and I&x27;m exhausted and angry. NTA, talk with your sister rather than her boyfriend and you need to establish boundaries with her. In this situation, my roommate&x27;s boyfriend has been causing trouble by eating all my food and making a mess everywhere. ) Basically he is always kinda rude, and I have never felt respected by him. I did not know he was her boyfriend upon first meeting him. AITA for wanting my boyfriend to ask his roommate to move out Should I just find my own place by myself so my son at least has a place to stay when hes born Please help me Im so conflicted and really need to know if Im overstepping since. rAmItheAsshole 1 day ago SaltGood5127 AITA Roommate moved her unemployed boyfriend in Not the A-hole My roommate and I have been friends for years and we also happen to work together. Your mom is an AH for using you as her collections agent and skirting the law regarding the rental because it's convenient for her. Since then he has been coming to ours every evening when he finishes work and stays the night. She and I get on great and everything and she is in a medium-distance relationship with her bf. The landlord told BF and roommate that if they didnt find a new tenant he would use Craigslist, so I moved in. We've gotten along wonderfully except for this past issue. I started dating "John" (m22) about three and a half months. At first it was awesome she was cool and respectful and her boyfriend only stayed a couple nights a week. Both the boyfriends are pilots, except her boyfriend has JUST started flying. He spends 26 of his income on. She wanted a fully functioning adult as a. Add around 1. The AI was trained on an ungodly amount of data from comments and posts on the rAITA subreddit. Aita for getting my roommates boyfriend kicked out I 20 F (roommate D) live with 3 other female roommates in what is considered college housing even though it is off campus. My roommates boyfriend is a pathological liar who has lied about the following Military status (stolen valor) Two careers Possession cars and real estate Being kicked out (hes 23 living at home, his parents were going to file a missing persons report because he lied. One way to make it more affordable is by fin. Boyfriends take their girlfriends out. . craigslist north carolina fayetteville